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陪伴有质量 幼儿有力量

发布时间:2019-12-15 作者:蒋珊珊 来源:中国教育报

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幼儿对亲子陪伴需求强烈

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案例1:安全匮乏,生“障碍式”交往

凯凯是小班孩子,我发现他一遇到不开心的事就在地上打滚。其他小朋友在操场上玩,他却捂着耳朵蹲在角落大喊大叫。与同伴交往时,他也过于胆小,生怕遭到拒绝。当我蹲下来问他话时,他总是非常沉默。

案例2:需求短缺,现“依恋式”游戏

嘉嘉进入娃娃家就开始忙着给娃娃穿鞋子、衣服等,过了一会儿又给娃娃换尿不湿,然后又说带娃娃去小山公园玩。我好奇地问:“这些你都是从哪里学来的?”她说:“这些都是我自己学的,我希望妈妈也能这样陪我。”

案例3:内心敏感,拒“敷衍式”陪伴

原本活泼的天天变沉默了。离园时想和他爸爸反馈天天最近的情况,可是他爸爸短短几分钟接了三个电话,我们的对话不得不一次又一次地停下来……

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亲子陪伴时常有心无力

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给幼儿更有品质的陪伴

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